Is your creative life getting the first class treatment, or is it shivering in a corner and slowly starving to death? It's important to invest time, energy, and sometimes finances in your creativity to let it know that it matters. This is one of the most important factors in a vibrant creative life.
Because getting to your writing can be just a little more - challenging - during the fun and frenzied festivity of the holiday season, I’ve put together five tips to help you keep your creative project alive Listen to audio, or watch the video. Enjoy! And Merry Christmas from me to you.
Over the last few weeks I've been engaged in a new process for me: forgiveness.
If you had asked me a month ago if I had things to forgive, I'd have blinked at you and said, "I don't hold grudges." (I really excel at denial.)
When my Dreambook Planner asks me every Sunday as I'm looking ahead at the new week: "Who do you need to forgive?" I often leave that space blank.
That's because I've been focused on who I need to forgive in my current every day life. And it's true -- I am pretty good at practicing forgiveness in the here and now. When something comes up I usually take care of it. But it has not always been so.
As I began working through an online class I'm doing (Money Bootcamp for Women by Denise Duffield Thomas and it's FANTASTIC if you happen to have any money hangups) I encountered an entire module on forgiveness. When I got into the work I realized I was dragging around years of baggage over hurts both large and small. It kinda felt a bit like this:
Thing is, I didn't even know they were there. I was so used to working around them that I thought the whole time I was free.
So I started a very simple practice of repeating the forgiveness mantra Denise teaches (I'm going to share it with you in a minute) whenever one of these people or incidents popped up. No pressure. No need to feel a certain way, or wait to forgive perfectly.
The name would come up. I'd repeat my little mantra, let it go, and move on.
I'll admit there were tears involved around some names and situations. But it felt so amazing to release all of that weight and let it go.
So then I started thinking. The act of forgiving is really for US, not for the person we forgive. In fact, in this forgiveness practice, those people are never even going to know whether we forgave them or not. It's all about clearing away all of that clutter. It weighs us down and holds us back. It can present as chatter from our internal critic.
And there is one person, sometimes the hardest to forgive, who needs to know I've forgiven her. And that person is - myself. She needs to know that I forgive her everything. All of her inconsistencies and faults, failures, and foibles.
I need to forgive her for years she wasted, for not always doing her best work, for procrastinating and avoiding, for missed opportunities and falling short of goals.
This, my dear one, frees up so much energy to move forward into deeper creativity, deeper relationships, and more joyful living.
The mantra is simply this:
I forgive you.
I'm sorry.
Thank you.
I love you.
(Note: You may have some people in your life, or in your past who have done heinous things to you and maybe they don't deserve to be forgiven. In that case, this kind of forgiveness may seem insurmountable to you. Remember this, though: Forgiveness is for YOU. And YOU deserve to be able to let it go. Sometimes it helps to start very small. Sometimes it helps to have a professional person to walk through this work with you.)
I plan to continue this forgiveness work on a daily basis, but this does seem to be the perfect time of year to focus in on it and give ourselves the gift of beginning the new year free and clear.
So, I'm running a free online Clear & Create group on Thursday, December 13, to take us through the process of letting go of our own perceived failures and creating intentions for 2019. This is an interactive Zoom room session involving guided imagery, free writing, and letting go of old baggage. I'd love to have you join us!
I’m also taking this work deeper as part of a brand new coaching package that will transform your creative process - and your life - within the space of 30 days. I believe in this so strongly I’m offering a guarantee.
You can get a free taste of how this works in the Clear & Create group, so I hope to see you there!
Perfectionism can shut down creativity faster than monkeys close out a banana party. Only I’m talking about pigs, not monkeys. Wait - I’m not really even talking about pigs. I guess you’ll just have to watch the video. OR you can listen to the podcast version here.
(Creativity Quest is copyrighted by Authors on the Air Global Radio Network)
Okay, my writer friends. I’m on a soap box today. It is time for us all to:
STOP falling short of our writing goals.
STOP the endless hours procrastinating on Facebook and watching never ending
re-runs of soulless TV.
STOP feeling desperate, hopeless and on the brink of giving up altogether.
BHAWG Magic, taking place live on December 6, 2018 at 4 pm PST is here to save your soul. (Well, okay, that might be a little over the top.)
Sign up here: BHAWG MAGIC
Hey, I’ve been in the procrastination trenches right along with you and I know how miserable it feels when you’re not getting to your writing and falling short of your goals. As a bestselling author and a Kaizen-Muse Creativity Coach, I’ve learned some amazing secrets about getting to my writing consistently and with joy.
And I want to share some of my best secrets with you. I can’t wait to walk you through setting a Big Hairy Ass Writing Goal (and share my best secrets for having fun reaching it) on December 6, 2018, at 4 pm PST. (Don’t worry - sign up to watch the replay).
Learn how to pursue a Big Hairy Ass Writer Goal (BHAWG) without succumbing to anxiety, avoidance, procrastination or ugly meltdown moments so that you can get your writing done with joy and ease and HAVE FUN DOING IT.
You've been gifted with the passion to write and it's time to live up to your potential. You'll be a better person for it, and – trust me - your friends, family, and readers will be too.
So be sure to nab a space, stock up on your fave snacks and have a plentiful supply of coffee! It’s going to be epic.
Oh, and the best part?
You don’t have to part with a single penny. Not one cent, absolutely nothing.
So there you have it….one simple click away from changing your writing life forever.
To make that happen, you need to take the first step and sign up for BHAWG Magic at the link below:
Sign up here: BWHAW MAGIC
PS - I can’t GUARANTEE the unicorns will show up. But I can tell you that magic happens when you write at the edge.
